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I’m begging you not to take it personally if you received this link instead of a personalized reply. I get literal hundreds of replies to and comments on my posts per day, many of which are the same questions over and over. I don’t have the time any more to go through them individually.
Art Stuff
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Art Stuff ...
Where can I read your comic?
You can’t…yet. While I appreciate how much interest people are showing in the idea, the final rewrite is currently still in progress and thus I haven’t finished the art yet. I hope to release it around October 2025, with a few one-page shorts potentially coming out before then.
There’s a locked page on this website that will open up access to the full comic when it is time, and an announcement will be posted to my art socials, which are all linked here.
What brushes do you use? [ Digital Art ]
For pencilling and sketches, I usually use the “Shale Brush” preset that came preinstalled on Procreate for the iPad. For inking, I change the brush around a lot.
I often use brushes made by Vegalia for some hairstyles. I don’t use the brushes as-is, though — I line over them so everything is stylistically consistent. (You’ll see a lot of people in the videos advertising the brushes do the same thing. I believe this is how they’re intended to be used!)
Skincare
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Skincare ...
Why won’t you give me free one-on-one advice if you post generalized advice for free?
If we’re being totally candid, it’s because of legal liability. You are not my client if you didn’t sign a waiver.
I’m also a licensed professional and it is completely unreasonable to expect me to do my job for free.
Trans Stuff
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Trans Stuff ...
[Insert most of the common questions about my gender here] ?
I’m agender.
I’m TMA.
Yes, I’ve had surgeries.
Yes, I’m on hormones.
Yes, nonbinary people can and do do those things.
Who did your FFS?
You do not want to go to my FFS surgeon. She gave me a cosmetic rhinoplasty that I did not ask for and did not consent to, then ghosted me when I raised concerns. She also called the police on me when I reported her to the Texas state board of medicine for violating HIPAA. There is a post available to read about what she did to my nose on my main Instagram page.
How long have you been on hormones?
I’ve been on HRT for almost nine years, though I have swapped the proportions around wildly several times and I only started taking progesterone at the end of 2023.
What are your dosages?
Whatever gets my levels into the range I want them to be in.
This always upsets people to hear, but hormone replacement therapy is not a “one size fits all” deal. You can’t just copy the regimen of someone whose body you want and end up with their exact physique — especially not if you’re ignoring factors like age, ethnicity, diet, exercise and daily habits.
I also refuse to give out what could legally be considered “free medical advice.”
Have you had a BBL?
No. Please stop asking me about this.
I’ve done my best to keep track of which artists created the pins on my jacket since 2023.
Unfortunately, I’ve been collecting them since 2004, so I don’t have sources listed for all of them…yet. Keep checking in on this list, as I’ll be adding to it whenever I track down sources for the older ones.
Please do not email me asking about a specific pin! Send me a comment on Instagram or Twitter wherever you see the pin collection!!
Pins that are on my outfits:
Art Gallery of Hamilton - Transgender Pantone Polaroid
Botanical Bright - Most butterflies and moths came from this artist
Bexa Boutique - “Take your meds” pin
Goat Paws - Cat no Bananya button
Kentucky Moon Designs - Most of the butterflies and moths
Mother of the Moon - Glow-in-the-dark bat pin
Official Exclusive NYC - Most photography pins, Kermit polaroid pin, keyboard pin
Vylirium - “Fuck off” pin; Chubby cat in devil costume